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About Karelia Stetz-Waters
I’m a lesbian romance writer, and I’ve been with my wife for 21 years.
How I made it up
I’m a lesbian romance writer, and I am committed to sharing lesbian sex tips with heterosexual couples (or male-female couples of any orientation). This became my mission when I learned that women who sleep with women reach orgasm at a higher rate than women who sleep with men. (I can send you the research.) It happens because society tells us that vaginal penetration is at the heart of sex. But penetration alone is not a particularly good way to make a woman come. When women are together, they focus more on the clitoris, and that equals more orgasms. But there’s no reason male-female couples can’t enjoy the acts I enjoy with my wife. Let’s all have as many orgasms as possible!
How to do it
One staple of my sex life is frottage or tribadism (if you want to be Victorian about it). The woman mounts her partner and rubs her vulva up and down her partner’s thigh until she orgasms.
She can put lube on her partner’s thigh. The partner on the bottom can thrust upward or stay still. They can play with her nipples or slap her ass or just let her concentrate on her own bliss.
This sex act is such a staple in my sex life with my wife, that I wouldn’t even consider it a tip except that I see so few representations of this act done by male-female couples in media. When was the last time you saw a movie sex scene where the woman came by rubbing against her male partner’s thigh? Can’t think of one, can you?
What she like it about it the most?
By rubbing against her partner, she can stimulate her entire vulva: clitoris, labia, mons. Remember, the vagina does not have a lot of touch sensitive nerve endings, so vaginal penetration doesn’t necessarily reach the places a woman needs to reach. It’s also important to note that most of the clitoris is under the skin. It’s a five-prong organ, about as large as the non-erect penis and it contains almost as much erectile tissue. By pressing her whole vulva and pubic area into her partner, a woman can stimulate that entire structure. Believe me. It’s awesome. Finally, frottage allows the woman to be in control of her own orgasm. This is a woman’s version of thrusting, and it does all the good things for her that penetrating the vagina does for men.
What he likes it about it the most?
First of all, it’s damn sexy to watch your partner come on top of you under any circumstances. Also, since she can get herself off, he doesn’t have to worry so much about lasting forever or being the perfect size.
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